Letter Sent

Signed Letter Sent via fax and certified mail today.

may 22, 2011

Hey, it's been 366 days since we've been together. I'll never give up! you are my life!

http://www.box.net/shared/4kjat8l5l5h3b592y6pz

the twins

i had another movement about your unborn siblings. i had a dream that they were graduating from kindergarten to first grade. they both look like and act like us. it's rough sometimes bun. but like you, i'm a big kid that's pretty strong.

Nothing has happened

Still keeping a video journal for my boy. I have all of the previous journal entrys archived. Keeping the faith.

Going to court tomorrow for my moms release at 10:30

updated

I got to court about bun today. I'll get him back with me and show everyone the real story.

Scapegoat

You are reading this simply because you want to. If you are offended, it's because you want to be. A companion blog to Order Of Persecution.  I choose to fight my own battles by leveraging information in a situation orchestrated by a covert-aggressive personality.  This is just part of my defense. It's not drama, it's just the facts. But call it what you want, it's still here and will stay here until I say otherwise.

So now I'm made out to be the scapegoat. The kids from her previous marriage up until 6 months ago didn't have a problem with me. Their attitude changed when they were told that I rejected The Way International Ministry. Their grandmother (janice dugger) ran me up one side and down the other in the nicest possible (covert) way base on what little she saw and what Kathryn has been telling her. They Boys enjoyed their VISIT at our home on the weekends. But then their personalities changed. Shortly after they had their summer vacation with Grandma Janice.

Kathryn married Christian and Cameron's dad even though she stated that didn't love him. She stated that their relationship was so bad, and that she was so lonely that she got herself pregnant out of loneliness. Even thought she already has a son by Jason.  I mean, who creates a human because there's nobody else around except for her older son. She said that she never loved Jason (her ex husband). But when he cheated on her in every attempt to drive her off, she stayed. Kathryn stated that her attitude was "sometimes its good to go, other times it's even better to stick around." I was assuming that she was sticking around just to torture and scream at him. Then in the end, leaving him and the kids just so she could say that the kids didn't need to be around all of that screaming and fighting (about mandy and jason having sex in her house while she was there) all the time. I guess it was just sex as well with jason since she admitted to me that she never loved him either.

She walked out on her other two kids back then. Since I'm not in the picture, she says that now she doesn't have to compromise (with me). Which she never had to do in the first place.

This is how I became the scapegoat for her healing her relationship with her kids. Blame Sean since he wouldn't let me do anything for you.

Yeah, Since Jason was keeping all the child support for himself.

capture and control

When it comes to being a power trip, nobody does it better than Kathryn. The following is just one good example of how her methods of capture and control have a positive and very powerful effect that furthers he r secret agendas against others.

Her promotion at KHQA to VP of Market Development:

One of the tactics that I've learned over the years is that Kathryn has a tendency to make you comfortable and dependent on her. Basically she feeds you a sense of becoming dependent on her by suggesting that things are "fine with money" or that she'll "take care of that" work for you. Repeatedly, over time, so that you get use to the way things are when she's around. She becomes your hero by being the person that makes everything happen in a positive way for your benefit. She projects things like "We have disposable income now" messages.

This is one example of the tactics that disarm you, makes you lazy as well a dangerously dependent on her.

see Law #11

This is how she got her promotion.

There was a point where she voluntarily took on so much work, that if things were going to keep afloat (other upper management maintaining security and comfort in their company) she'd have to keep doing the same volume of work (if not more) that offered her company the security that her abilities provided.

Knowing that, she put the office that secure position over time by maintaining  high performance.  So she went out and got another job working for a direct competitor to gain preemptive leverage against her company. Keep in mind. This was after telling her boss that she was looking for other work. She told a former employee of KHQA (Carol Reese) that was working for QNI at the time, that she was looking for a different job and that she was being overworked (voluntarily?). Kathryn's work ethic and reputation followed her into a situation to where she actually applied and landed a position and The Whig (Tom Kelling).

After she got the job and political season was on the horizon for KHQA, she went to her boss and told her that she got hired somewhere. Also keep in mind, she knew that they were already dependent on her and in their minds, nobody else that was convenient or on staff could do the work that she did effectively. This is called before and during negotiations "being able to walk away from the table" or artistic persuasion.

She didn't hold wanting or needing more money over their head. She simply stated that she wanted less work. Which was completely undoable since she (and others) knew that in her mind that she was the only person who could effectively do the job at a very sensitive time. So she got her promotion as a counter offer to stay and told the Whig that she wasn't leaving her job.

She made her job performance hard to follow since everyone else in their company leaned on their educational background to help them earn their position. These tactics that she implements have the boiling frog syndrome written all over them.